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class=\"emanuel-editorial\" dir=\"ltr\">\n<p>Yahudi gelene\u011fi bir\u00e7ok toplulukta, farkl\u0131 dillerde ve de\u011fi\u015fen ya\u015fam ko\u015fullar\u0131nda aktar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Her aile ge\u00e7mi\u015f ku\u015faklardan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ezgi, dua d\u00fczeni ve \u00e2detler ta\u015f\u0131r. Bu ba\u011f k\u00f6klenme ve g\u00fcven sa\u011flayabilir; ancak farkl\u0131 uygulamalara sahip ki\u015fileri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyen bir duvara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmemelidir.<\/p>\n<h2>Birlik, tek bi\u00e7imlilik de\u011fildir<\/h2>\n<p>Tek bir halka ait olup farkl\u0131 dua d\u00fczenlerini izlemek m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Farkl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 kabul etmek aile gelene\u011finden vazge\u00e7meyi gerektirmez; onu korumak da ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n onurunu incitmeye izin vermez. Pratik soru, farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 nas\u0131l konu\u015ftu\u011fumuzdur: merak ve sayg\u0131yla m\u0131, \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck kan\u0131tlama \u00e7abas\u0131yla m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Halahik bir anla\u015fmazl\u0131k ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bile h\u00fckm\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131\u011fa kavu\u015fturmakla b\u00fct\u00fcn bir topluluk hakk\u0131nda genelleme yapmak ay\u0131rt edilmelidir. Bir insan\u0131n k\u00f6keni, ahlak\u0131n\u0131n, bilgisinin veya de\u011ferinin \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fc de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00c2detler ayn\u0131 evde bulu\u015ftu\u011funda<\/h2>\n<p>E\u015fler ve aile \u00fcyeleri farkl\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015flerden gelebilir. Hangi \u00e2detlerin her biri i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu, evin gelene\u011finin ne olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve hangi konunun halahik dan\u0131\u015fma gerektirdi\u011fini birlikte konu\u015fmak yararl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6nceden yap\u0131lan bir konu\u015fma, bayram sofras\u0131nda veya \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6nleyebilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6fkeyle karar istemek yerine ko\u015fullar\u0131 bilen bir hahama dan\u0131\u015f\u0131labilir. A\u00e7\u0131klama nesnel ve sayg\u0131l\u0131 olmal\u0131; taraflardan birinin ailesi sanki hep yanl\u0131\u015f ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00f6sterilmemelidir.<\/p>\n<h2>Tora bilginlerine sayg\u0131 ve konuya odakl\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fma<\/h2>\n<p>A\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131k kazanmak amac\u0131yla yap\u0131lan tart\u0131\u015fma, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6zlerine \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermeyi gerektirir. Ba\u015fka bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f \u00f6\u011frenilebilir, kaynaklar\u0131 incelenebilir ve hatta ona kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131labilir; alaya veya a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamaya ba\u015fvurmadan. Sert bir ba\u015fl\u0131k ya da ba\u011flam\u0131ndan kopar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir c\u00fcmle, \u00f6\u011frenimin yerini tutmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Bu sorumluluk internette yazarken de ge\u00e7erlidir. Yan\u0131t vermeden \u00f6nce metnin tamam\u0131n\u0131 okumak, ne s\u00f6ylendi\u011fini anlamak ve yan\u0131t\u0131n anlay\u0131\u015f m\u0131 yoksa yaln\u0131zca \u00f6fke mi kataca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek yararl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>Yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131ran k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck davran\u0131\u015flar<\/h2>\n<p>Birine ailesinin \u00e2detlerini sorabilir, onu \u00f6\u011frenime davet edebilir, ihtiyac\u0131nda yard\u0131m edebilir veya tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir dua d\u00fczenine yer a\u00e7abiliriz. Ki\u015fisel tan\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131k, soyut tart\u0131\u015fman\u0131n de\u011fi\u015ftiremedi\u011fi \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar\u0131 bazen \u00e7\u00f6zebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Yahudi halk\u0131na sevgi, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ger\u00e7ek insana davran\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda s\u0131nan\u0131r. S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 veya anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmaz; onlar\u0131n i\u00e7inde de insan onurunu korumay\u0131 gerektirir. B\u00f6ylece gelenek, ayr\u0131l\u0131k arac\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmeden korunur.<\/p>\n<p><small>\u0130nceleme i\u00e7in: Levililer 19, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 sevmek; Avot 5, G\u00f6k ad\u0131na g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131; Orah LeHayim, Vayikra b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc, birlik a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131.<\/small><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/main><\/p>\n<footer class=\"es-footer\">\n<p>Haham Emanuel Shahar \u00b7 Tiferet Malchut Shlomo<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20370&#038;lang=tr\">Haham hakk\u0131nda<\/a> \u00b7 <a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20360&#038;lang=tr\">Kullan\u0131m ko\u015fullar\u0131<\/a><\/p>\n<nav class=\"es-langs\" aria-label=\"Dil\"><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=22&#038;lang=he\" hreflang=\"he\" lang=\"he\">\u05e2\u05d1\u05e8\u05d9\u05ea<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1052&#038;lang=en\" hreflang=\"en\" lang=\"en\">English<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1053&#038;lang=fr\" hreflang=\"fr\" lang=\"fr\">Fran\u00e7ais<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1054&#038;lang=ar\" hreflang=\"ar\" lang=\"ar\">\u0627\u0644\u0639\u0631\u0628\u064a\u0629<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20074&#038;lang=es\" hreflang=\"es\" lang=\"es\">Espa\u00f1ol<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20369&#038;lang=fa\" hreflang=\"fa\" lang=\"fa\">\u0641\u0627\u0631\u0633\u06cc<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20374&#038;lang=tr\" hreflang=\"tr\" lang=\"tr\" aria-current=\"page\">T\u00fcrk\u00e7e<\/a><\/nav>\n<\/footer>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yahudi gelene\u011fi bir\u00e7ok toplulukta, farkl\u0131 dillerde ve de\u011fi\u015fen ya\u015fam ko\u015fullar\u0131nda aktar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 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