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plaies dans la Haggada, de nombreuses communaut\u00e9s retirent un peu de vin de la coupe. Ce petit geste a re\u00e7u diverses interpr\u00e9tations dans les livres de coutumes, la halakhah et la litt\u00e9rature kabbalistique. Pour bien le comprendre, il faut distinguer la coutume int\u00e9gr\u00e9e au d\u00e9roulement de la Haggada des r\u00e9cits plus tardifs associ\u00e9s aux gouttes de vin.<\/p>\n<h2>La source dans les lois du S\u00e9der<\/h2>\n<p>Dans les gloses du Rama sur les lois de Pessa\u2019h, au chapitre 473, la coutume de laisser tomber du vin est mentionn\u00e9e lors des mots \u00ab sang, feu et colonnes de fum\u00e9e \u00bb, des dix plaies et des signes mn\u00e9motechniques de Rabbi Yehouda. Les livres de coutumes d\u00e9crivent plusieurs fa\u00e7ons de proc\u00e9der, avec un doigt ou directement de la coupe. Chaque famille suit sa coutume ; en l\u2019absence d\u2019un usage clair, on peut consulter un rabbin.<\/p>\n<h2>Interpr\u00e9tations et allusions<\/h2>\n<p>Certaines interpr\u00e9tations soulignent le souvenir des plaies et la demande de d\u00e9livrance ; d\u2019autres d\u00e9veloppent des allusions et des intentions mystiques. Il ne faut pas m\u00ealer ces explications comme si elles provenaient toutes de la m\u00eame source. M\u00eame une explication tr\u00e8s connue ne devrait \u00eatre attribu\u00e9e \u00e0 un auteur pr\u00e9cis qu\u2019apr\u00e8s v\u00e9rification de ses mots dans son livre.<\/p>\n<p>Le S\u00e9der est consacr\u00e9 au r\u00e9cit de la sortie d\u2019\u00c9gypte, \u00e0 la gratitude et \u00e0 la transmission. Les coutumes de la coupe peuvent approfondir l\u2019intention, mais ne devraient pas d\u00e9tourner du r\u00e9cit ni des \u00e9changes entre les membres du foyer.<\/p>\n<h2>Est-ce une coutume destin\u00e9e \u00e0 nuire \u00e0 autrui ?<\/h2>\n<p>Des r\u00e9cits populaires associent aussi les gouttes de vin \u00e0 des actions contre des adversaires. L\u2019existence d\u2019un r\u00e9cit n\u2019en fait pas une directive halakhique et ne prouve pas que le geste a caus\u00e9 l\u2019\u00e9v\u00e9nement racont\u00e9. La source de cette coutume n\u2019autorise pas \u00e0 verser du vin l\u00e0 o\u00f9 passe une personne pr\u00e9cise ni \u00e0 agir pour l\u2019effrayer ou lui nuire.<\/p>\n<p>Une personne en conflit a besoin d\u2019un examen objectif et d\u2019une voie permise pour le r\u00e9soudre. Demander l\u2019aide du Cr\u00e9ateur peut accompagner cette d\u00e9marche sans transformer la table de f\u00eate en lieu de vengeance.<\/p>\n<h2>Comment proc\u00e9der en pratique ?<\/h2>\n<p>On suit la Haggada et la coutume familiale, en veillant \u00e0 la propret\u00e9 et \u00e0 la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 et en \u00e9cartant les r\u00e9cipients cass\u00e9s ou les objets dangereux. Il n\u2019est pas n\u00e9cessaire de recueillir les gouttes pour un autre usage. Pour la mani\u00e8re de proc\u00e9der ou le vin restant, on demande un avis halakhique adapt\u00e9 \u00e0 la coutume de la famille.<\/p>\n<p>La coutume garde ainsi sa place : elle appartient \u00e0 un ordre de gratitude, de m\u00e9moire et d\u2019esp\u00e9rance de d\u00e9livrance, o\u00f9 la responsabilit\u00e9 des paroles et des actes importe autant que l\u2019intention symbolique.<\/p>\n<p><small>Pour approfondir : Rama, Ora\u2019h \u2018Ha\u00efm 473 ; Darkhei Moch\u00e9, au m\u00eame endroit ; livres sur les coutumes du S\u00e9der.<\/small><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/main><\/p>\n<footer class=\"es-footer\">\n<p>Rav Emanuel Shahar \u00b7 Tiferet Malchut Shlomo<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20361&#038;lang=fr\">\u00c0 propos du Rav<\/a> \u00b7 <a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=50003&#038;lang=fr\">Conditions d\u2019utilisation<\/a><\/p>\n<nav class=\"es-langs\" aria-label=\"Langue\"><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=22&#038;lang=he\" hreflang=\"he\" lang=\"he\">\u05e2\u05d1\u05e8\u05d9\u05ea<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1052&#038;lang=en\" hreflang=\"en\" lang=\"en\">English<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1053&#038;lang=fr\" hreflang=\"fr\" lang=\"fr\" aria-current=\"page\">Fran\u00e7ais<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1054&#038;lang=ar\" hreflang=\"ar\" lang=\"ar\">\u0627\u0644\u0639\u0631\u0628\u064a\u0629<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20074&#038;lang=es\" hreflang=\"es\" lang=\"es\">Espa\u00f1ol<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20369&#038;lang=fa\" hreflang=\"fa\" lang=\"fa\">\u0641\u0627\u0631\u0633\u06cc<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20374&#038;lang=tr\" hreflang=\"tr\" lang=\"tr\">T\u00fcrk\u00e7e<\/a><\/nav>\n<\/footer>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lorsqu\u2019on \u00e9num\u00e8re les plaies dans la Haggada, de nombreuses communaut\u00e9s retirent un peu de vin de la coupe. 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