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pr\u00e9nom est un moment o\u00f9 se rencontrent amour, m\u00e9moire et espoir. Les parents souhaitent offrir \u00e0 leur enfant un pr\u00e9nom qui l\u2019accompagnera, portera un beau sens et le reliera \u00e0 sa famille et \u00e0 sa tradition. \u00c0 l\u2019\u00e9motion peuvent s\u2019ajouter des questions : faut-il reprendre le pr\u00e9nom d\u2019un proche, que faire si les coutumes diff\u00e8rent, et comment choisir un pr\u00e9nom accept\u00e9 sereinement par les deux parents ?<\/p>\n<h2>Le pr\u00e9nom commence par l\u2019accord des parents<\/h2>\n<p>Le respect des grands-parents importe, mais le choix devrait na\u00eetre d\u2019un \u00e9change entre les parents. Chacun peut proposer plusieurs pr\u00e9noms et expliquer ce qu\u2019il y trouve : le souvenir d\u2019un \u00eatre cher, une qualit\u00e9 souhait\u00e9e, un verset ou une sonorit\u00e9. Cet \u00e9change permet de comprendre le souhait derri\u00e8re le pr\u00e9nom plut\u00f4t que d\u2019en faire une comp\u00e9tition entre familles.<\/p>\n<p>En cas de d\u00e9saccord, inutile de conclure trop vite que l\u2019un a tort. On peut chercher un pr\u00e9nom au sens partag\u00e9 ou consulter un rabbin connaissant la famille et ses coutumes. Choisir dans la paix constitue d\u00e9j\u00e0 un bon d\u00e9part.<\/p>\n<h2>Le sens du pr\u00e9nom et sa place dans les sources<\/h2>\n<p>Le Midrach Tan\u2019houma sur Haazinou traite du sens des noms, et la tradition accorde de l\u2019importance \u00e0 un pr\u00e9nom porteur d\u2019un bon contenu. Toutefois, un pr\u00e9nom seul ne permet pas de d\u00e9duire le caract\u00e8re ou l\u2019avenir d\u2019un enfant. Le m\u00eame nom peut appara\u00eetre dans divers contextes, et les coutumes diff\u00e8rent selon les communaut\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Plut\u00f4t que de s\u2019appuyer sur des listes rejetant globalement certains pr\u00e9noms, mieux vaut examiner le sens du pr\u00e9nom pr\u00e9cis et la coutume familiale. Un pr\u00e9nom d\u00e9j\u00e0 donn\u00e9 n\u2019est pas une raison d\u2019effrayer quelqu\u2019un ni de lui attribuer des \u00e9checs ou des maladies.<\/p>\n<h2>Honorer la m\u00e9moire d\u2019un proche<\/h2>\n<p>Reprendre le pr\u00e9nom d\u2019un \u00eatre cher peut pr\u00e9server un lien de respect et de gratitude. Les communaut\u00e9s diff\u00e8rent quant au fait de reprendre le pr\u00e9nom d\u2019un proche vivant et sur d\u2019autres points. M\u00eame apr\u00e8s un d\u00e9c\u00e8s dans des circonstances difficiles, un article g\u00e9n\u00e9ral ne permet pas d\u2019affirmer que cet hommage est interdit ou dangereux ; c\u2019est une question personnelle \u00e0 aborder avec respect et sensibilit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2>Penser aussi \u00e0 la vie quotidienne<\/h2>\n<p>Dites le pr\u00e9nom \u00e0 voix haute avec le nom de famille, v\u00e9rifiez son orthographe et son sens dans les langues du foyer. Choisissez un pr\u00e9nom aim\u00e9 des parents et que l\u2019enfant pourra porter avec dignit\u00e9, sans lui imposer de vivre la vie de la personne dont il porte le nom.<\/p>\n<h2>Quand consulter pour un changement de pr\u00e9nom ?<\/h2>\n<p>Changer de pr\u00e9nom est distinct du choix d\u2019un pr\u00e9nom de b\u00e9b\u00e9. Cela ne doit pas se faire sous pression, sur promesse de r\u00e9sultat ou par peur suscit\u00e9e par une liste en ligne. 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