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bulu\u015ftu\u011fu and\u0131r. Anne baba, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na ya\u015fam\u0131 boyunca e\u015flik edecek, iyi anlam ta\u015f\u0131yacak, aileye ve gelene\u011fe ba\u011flayacak bir ad vermek ister. Heyecan\u0131n yan\u0131nda sorular do\u011fabilir: Bir akraban\u0131n ad\u0131 m\u0131 verilmeli, gelenekler farkl\u0131ysa ne yap\u0131lmal\u0131, ikisinin de i\u00e7ine sinen ad nas\u0131l se\u00e7ilmeli?<\/p>\n<h2>Ad, anne baban\u0131n uzla\u015fmas\u0131yla ba\u015flar<\/h2>\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve b\u00fcy\u00fckbabalara sayg\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir; ancak se\u00e7im anne baban\u0131n ortak konu\u015fmas\u0131ndan do\u011fmal\u0131d\u0131r. Her biri birka\u00e7 ad \u00f6nerip onda ne buldu\u011funu anlatabilir: sevilen birinin hat\u0131ras\u0131, arzulanan \u00f6zellik, bir ayet veya ses. B\u00f6ylece ad\u0131n arkas\u0131ndaki istek anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r; konu aileler aras\u0131 yar\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmez.<\/p>\n<p>Uzla\u015fma yoksa bir taraf\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu hemen ilan etmek gerekmez. Ortak anlam ta\u015f\u0131yan bir ad aranabilir veya aileyi ve geleneklerini bilen bir hahama dan\u0131\u015f\u0131labilir. Bar\u0131\u015f i\u00e7inde ad se\u00e7mek ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na iyi bir ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7t\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>Ad\u0131n anlam\u0131 ve kaynaklardaki yeri<\/h2>\n<p>Haazinu b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne ait Midra\u015f Tanhuma adlar\u0131n anlam\u0131n\u0131 ele al\u0131r; gelenek iyi i\u00e7erikli ad se\u00e7meye \u00f6nem verir. Yine de yaln\u0131z addan \u00e7ocu\u011fun karakteri veya hayat\u0131n\u0131n nas\u0131l olaca\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lamaz. Ayn\u0131 ad kaynaklarda farkl\u0131 ba\u011flamlarda g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir; cemaatlerin gelenekleri de de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/p>\n<p>Adlar\u0131 toptan reddeden listelere dayanmak yerine belirli ad\u0131n anlam\u0131 ve aile gelene\u011fi ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Verilmi\u015f bir ad, ki\u015fiyi korkutmak veya ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k ve hastal\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ona ba\u011flamak i\u00e7in gerek\u00e7e de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<h2>Bir aile \u00fcyesinin hat\u0131ras\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fatmak<\/h2>\n<p>Sevilen birinin ad\u0131n\u0131 vermek sayg\u0131 ve minnet ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131 koruyabilir. Ya\u015fayan akraban\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 verme ve ba\u015fka konularda cemaatlerin gelenekleri farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Ki\u015fi zor ko\u015fullarda vefat etmi\u015f olsa bile, genel bir yaz\u0131dan hat\u0131ras\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fatman\u0131n yasak veya tehlikeli oldu\u011fu \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lamaz. Bu, sayg\u0131 ve duyarl\u0131l\u0131kla ele al\u0131nacak ki\u015fisel bir sorudur.<\/p>\n<h2>G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam\u0131 da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek<\/h2>\n<p>Ad\u0131 soyad\u0131yla birlikte y\u00fcksek sesle s\u00f6yleyin; yaz\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ve evde kullan\u0131lan dillerde anlam\u0131n\u0131 kontrol edin. Anne baban\u0131n sevdi\u011fi, \u00e7ocu\u011fun onurla ta\u015f\u0131yabilece\u011fi ad se\u00e7ilmeli; ad\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015finin ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmesi beklentisi y\u00fcklenmemelidir.<\/p>\n<h2>Ad de\u011fi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ne zaman dan\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131r?<\/h2>\n<p>Ad de\u011fi\u015ftirmek, bebe\u011fe ad se\u00e7mekten ayr\u0131 bir konudur. Bask\u0131yla, sonu\u00e7 vaadiyle veya internetteki bir listenin do\u011furdu\u011fu korkuyla yap\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Ad\u0131n\u0131n anlam\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmak isteyen, ko\u015fullar\u0131n, aile gelene\u011finin ve sorunun kendisinin ele al\u0131naca\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fisel g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeye ba\u015fvurabilir.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wa.me\/972583328293\">Adlar konusunda haham\u0131n ofisiyle ileti\u015fim<\/a><\/p>\n<p><small>\u0130nceleme: Midra\u015f Tanhuma, Haazinu; Yoma 83; cemaatlerin ad verme gelenekleri.<\/small><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/main><\/p>\n<footer class=\"es-footer\">\n<p>Haham Emanuel Shahar \u00b7 Tiferet Malchut Shlomo<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20370&#038;lang=tr\">Haham hakk\u0131nda<\/a> \u00b7 <a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20360&#038;lang=tr\">Kullan\u0131m ko\u015fullar\u0131<\/a><\/p>\n<nav class=\"es-langs\" aria-label=\"Dil\"><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=22&#038;lang=he\" hreflang=\"he\" lang=\"he\">\u05e2\u05d1\u05e8\u05d9\u05ea<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1052&#038;lang=en\" hreflang=\"en\" lang=\"en\">English<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1053&#038;lang=fr\" hreflang=\"fr\" lang=\"fr\">Fran\u00e7ais<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1054&#038;lang=ar\" hreflang=\"ar\" lang=\"ar\">\u0627\u0644\u0639\u0631\u0628\u064a\u0629<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20074&#038;lang=es\" hreflang=\"es\" lang=\"es\">Espa\u00f1ol<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20369&#038;lang=fa\" hreflang=\"fa\" lang=\"fa\">\u0641\u0627\u0631\u0633\u06cc<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20374&#038;lang=tr\" hreflang=\"tr\" lang=\"tr\" aria-current=\"page\">T\u00fcrk\u00e7e<\/a><\/nav>\n<\/footer>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ad vermek, sevgi, hat\u0131ra ve umudun bulu\u015ftu\u011fu and\u0131r. 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