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avant Chabbat sont parfois pleines de cuisine, m\u00e9nage et derniers pr\u00e9paratifs. Le d\u00e9sir que tout soit pr\u00eat peut cr\u00e9er de la tension. Les ouvrages d\u2019\u00e9thique rappellent que pr\u00e9parer Chabbat concerne autant l\u2019atmosph\u00e8re autour de la table que ce qui s\u2019y trouve.<\/p>\n<h2>La paix fait partie de l\u2019honneur du Chabbat<\/h2>\n<p>Guitin raconte comment Rabbi Me\u00efr aida \u00e0 r\u00e9tablir la paix l\u00e0 o\u00f9 l\u2019on se querellait avant Chabbat. Le \u2018Hida, dans Mor\u00e9 BeEtsba, insiste sur la douceur et la paix durant ces heures. L\u2019application est concr\u00e8te : retenir une r\u00e9ponse dure, demander calmement et se rappeler qu\u2019une personne compte plus que la perfection d\u2019une t\u00e2che.<\/p>\n<h2>Des pr\u00e9paratifs qui r\u00e9duisent la tension<\/h2>\n<p>R\u00e9partissez les t\u00e2ches \u00e0 l\u2019avance, anticipez ce qui peut l\u2019\u00eatre et d\u00e9cidez ensemble de l\u2019essentiel et de ce qui peut attendre. Des responsabilit\u00e9s claires r\u00e9duisent les remarques de derni\u00e8re minute. Demandez de l\u2019aide dans un esprit de coop\u00e9ration, sans accusation.<\/p>\n<p>Les coutumes d\u2019am\u00e9nagement du foyer et de pr\u00e9paration de la vaisselle rappellent qu\u2019un petit obstacle enlev\u00e9 peut \u00e9viter une col\u00e8re inutile. Mais propret\u00e9 et coutumes ne doivent pas devenir un test de vertu pour un proche.<\/p>\n<h2>Parler doucement m\u00eame quand tout ne r\u00e9ussit pas<\/h2>\n<p>Si un plat est rat\u00e9 ou un d\u00e9tail oubli\u00e9, arr\u00eatez-vous et choisissez une r\u00e9ponse qui respecte l\u2019effort. Renoncer \u00e0 une parole blessante n\u2019efface pas nos besoins ; c\u2019est choisir le bon moment et la bonne mani\u00e8re de les exprimer.<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s Chabbat, parlez calmement de la r\u00e9partition des t\u00e2ches et pr\u00e9voyez une petite am\u00e9lioration. Un changement r\u00e9gulier vaut mieux qu\u2019une grande promesse sous pression.<\/p>\n<h2>La place de la pri\u00e8re<\/h2>\n<p>La pri\u00e8re pour la paix du foyer accompagne le travail sur les qualit\u00e9s, sans le remplacer. Face \u00e0 des atteintes persistantes, \u00e0 la peur ou \u00e0 la violence, personne ne doit \u00eatre contraint au silence au nom de la paix ; recherchez une aide adapt\u00e9e. La vraie paix repose sur le respect et la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 mutuels.<\/p>\n<p><small>Sources \u00e0 \u00e9tudier : Guitin 52 ; Mor\u00e9 BeEtsba, section 140 ; ouvrages sur la conduite du Chabbat.<\/small><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/main><\/p>\n<footer class=\"es-footer\">\n<p>Rav Emanuel Shahar \u00b7 Tiferet Malchut Shlomo<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20361&#038;lang=fr\">\u00c0 propos du Rav<\/a> \u00b7 <a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=50003&#038;lang=fr\">Conditions d\u2019utilisation<\/a><\/p>\n<nav class=\"es-langs\" aria-label=\"Langue\"><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=22&#038;lang=he\" hreflang=\"he\" lang=\"he\">\u05e2\u05d1\u05e8\u05d9\u05ea<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1052&#038;lang=en\" hreflang=\"en\" lang=\"en\">English<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1053&#038;lang=fr\" hreflang=\"fr\" lang=\"fr\" aria-current=\"page\">Fran\u00e7ais<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=1054&#038;lang=ar\" hreflang=\"ar\" lang=\"ar\">\u0627\u0644\u0639\u0631\u0628\u064a\u0629<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20074&#038;lang=es\" hreflang=\"es\" lang=\"es\">Espa\u00f1ol<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20369&#038;lang=fa\" hreflang=\"fa\" lang=\"fa\">\u0641\u0627\u0631\u0633\u06cc<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/emanuelshahar.com\/?page_id=20374&#038;lang=tr\" hreflang=\"tr\" lang=\"tr\">T\u00fcrk\u00e7e<\/a><\/nav>\n<\/footer>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Les heures avant Chabbat sont parfois pleines de cuisine, m\u00e9nage et derniers pr\u00e9paratifs. 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