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class=\"emanuel-editorial\" dir=\"ltr\">\n<p>\u015eabat \u00f6ncesi saatler yemek, temizlik, ev d\u00fczeni ve son ayr\u0131nt\u0131larla dolabilir. Her \u015feyin haz\u0131r olmas\u0131 iste\u011fi gerilim yaratabilir. Ahlak kitaplar\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n yaln\u0131z sofradakiler de\u011fil, ev halk\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7evresinde oturdu\u011fu ortam oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>Huzur, \u015eabat\u2019a sayg\u0131n\u0131n par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r<\/h2>\n<p>Gitin, \u015eabat \u00f6ncesi tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerde Rabi Meir\u2019in bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 sa\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131r. Hida, More BeEtsba\u2019da bu saatlerde sertlikten ka\u00e7\u0131nmay\u0131 ve huzuru art\u0131rmay\u0131 vurgular. Yol g\u00f6sterme somuttur: sert cevab\u0131 tutmak, sakin istemek, insan\u0131n i\u015fin kusursuzlu\u011fundan \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlamak.<\/p>\n<h2>Stresi azaltan somut haz\u0131rl\u0131k<\/h2>\n<p>\u0130\u015fleri \u00f6nceden b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olan\u0131 erkenden yap\u0131n, gerekli olanla bekleyebilecek olan\u0131 birlikte belirleyin. Sorumluluk a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 son dakika uyar\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 azalt\u0131r. Yard\u0131m iste\u011fi su\u00e7lama de\u011fil, i\u015fbirli\u011fi diliyle s\u00f6ylenmelidir.<\/p>\n<p>Evi ve sofra ara\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 haz\u0131rlama gelenekleri, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck engeli kald\u0131rman\u0131n gereksiz \u00f6fkeyi \u00f6nleyebilece\u011fini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Ama temizlik veya belirli gelenek, evdekinin erdem s\u0131nav\u0131na \u00e7evrilmemelidir.<\/p>\n<h2>Her \u015fey yolunda gitmese de sakin konu\u015fmak<\/h2>\n<p>Yemek planland\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi olmad\u0131ysa veya bir \u015fey unutulduysa durup eme\u011fe sayg\u0131l\u0131 bir cevap se\u00e7in. \u0130ncitici s\u00f6z\u00fc b\u0131rakmak ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yok saymak de\u011fil, onlar\u0131 s\u00f6ylemek i\u00e7in uygun zaman ve yol se\u00e7mektir.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eabat\u2019tan sonra y\u00fck payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 sakince konu\u015fup gelecek hafta i\u00e7in k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck iyile\u015ftirme planlay\u0131n. Tutarl\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fim, bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda verilen b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u00f6zden iyidir.<\/p>\n<h2>Duan\u0131n yeri<\/h2>\n<p>Evde huzur duas\u0131 karakter \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na e\u015flik eder, yerini almaz. S\u00fcrekli zarar, korku veya \u015fiddette kimseden bar\u0131\u015f ad\u0131na susmas\u0131 istenmemelidir; uygun yard\u0131m aranmal\u0131d\u0131r. 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