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class=\"emanuel-editorial\" dir=\"ltr\">\n<p>\u00d6\u011frenciler \u00f6\u011fretmenlerine \u2018Neyle uzun \u00f6mre eri\u015ftin?\u2019 diye sorduklar\u0131nda cevaplar \u00e7o\u011fu kez karakter ve g\u00fcndelik davran\u0131\u015fla ilgiliydi. Merkezde yaln\u0131z nadir bir eylem veya y\u00fccelme an\u0131 de\u011fil; insan\u0131n evde konu\u015fmas\u0131, arkada\u015f\u0131na sayg\u0131s\u0131 ve \u00f6\u011frenim evindeki davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131. B\u00f6ylece ya\u015fam\u0131 bereket ve sorumluluk olarak anlama yolu a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>Evde sertlikten ka\u00e7\u0131nmak<\/h2>\n<p>Talmud gelene\u011finde evde sert davranmamak anlat\u0131l\u0131r. Bu, s\u0131n\u0131r koymamak veya zorlu\u011fu konu\u015fmamak de\u011fildir. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamayan, her hatay\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmaya \u00e7evirmeyen bir yol se\u00e7mektir. Sab\u0131r tam da en yak\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yan\u0131nda s\u0131nan\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Basit\u00e7e uygulay\u0131n: \u00f6fkeli cevaptan \u00f6nce bekleyin, su\u00e7lamadan \u00f6nce sorun, d\u00fczenli yap\u0131lan i\u015f i\u00e7in bile te\u015fekk\u00fcr edin. Bunlar sayg\u0131 ortam\u0131 kuran k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck davran\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na ve Tora\u2019ya sayg\u0131<\/h2>\n<p>Megila, sinagoga sayg\u0131y\u0131, arkada\u015flar\u0131n onurunu g\u00f6zetmeyi ve \u00f6\u011frenimde s\u00fcreklili\u011fi anlat\u0131r. Ortak noktalar\u0131 insan\u0131n d\u00fcnyan\u0131n merkezi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmektir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na, \u00f6\u011fretmenlere ve topluma yer vard\u0131r; ruh h\u00e2line ba\u011fl\u0131 olmayan d\u00fczenlilik de\u011ferlidir.<\/p>\n<h2>Do\u011fru s\u00f6z ve \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr<\/h2>\n<p>Ahlak kitaplar\u0131 do\u011fru ya\u015fam\u0131n temeline hakikati koyar. Do\u011fruluk yaln\u0131z a\u00e7\u0131k yalandan ka\u00e7\u0131nmak de\u011fil; hatay\u0131 kabul etmek, temelsiz s\u00f6z vermemek ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n iyili\u011fini g\u00f6rmektir. \u015e\u00fck\u00fcr de eldekiyle sevinme ve s\u00fcrekli k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k olmadan davranma g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc art\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>Ya\u015fam\u0131n bereketi bir form\u00fcl de\u011fildir<\/h2>\n<p>Bilgelerin uzun \u00f6m\u00fcr s\u00f6zleri manevi ve ahlaki \u00f6\u011frenme kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Belirli davran\u0131\u015fla birinin \u00f6mr\u00fc hesaplanamaz; hastal\u0131k veya \u00f6l\u00fcm manevi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k kan\u0131t\u0131 say\u0131lmaz. 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