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class=\"emanuel-editorial\" dir=\"ltr\">\n<p>Fonder un foyer juif implique responsabilit\u00e9, compatibilit\u00e9 humaine, qualit\u00e9s morales et volont\u00e9 commune. Des questions surgissent parfois sur les noms des conjoints et les coutumes rapport\u00e9es dans les livres. Il convient de les aborder avec respect et discernement, sans transformer chaque allusion en motif de peur.<\/p>\n<h2>Des noms identiques dans la famille<\/h2>\n<p>Le testament de Rabbi Yehouda H\u00e9\u2018Hassid \u00e9voque des ressemblances entre les noms des conjoints et ceux de leurs parents. La port\u00e9e de ces directives et leur application ont fait l\u2019objet d\u2019interpr\u00e9tations diverses. Un article g\u00e9n\u00e9ral ne doit donc pas \u00eatre pris comme une d\u00e9cision personnelle imposant de changer un nom, d\u2019annuler un projet de mariage ou de fragiliser un couple existant.<\/p>\n<p>Pour une question pratique, pr\u00e9sentez au rabbin les noms complets, les appellations r\u00e9ellement utilis\u00e9es et la coutume familiale. Un examen m\u00e9thodique vaut mieux qu\u2019une rumeur ou qu\u2019une conclusion fond\u00e9e sur un nom partiel.<\/p>\n<h2>Ce que les calculs sur les noms ne disent pas<\/h2>\n<p>Les calculs de lettres et les gu\u00e9matrias ne remplacent pas l\u2019examen de la relation elle-m\u00eame. \u00c0 eux seuls, ils ne disent pas si les conjoints s\u2019\u00e9coutent, se respectent, partagent des valeurs et peuvent construire une vie commune. Une d\u00e9cision d\u00e9cisive ne doit pas reposer sur un calcul isol\u00e9 ou une affirmation effrayante non examin\u00e9e.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00e9fiez-vous surtout des affirmations cat\u00e9goriques ordonnant une s\u00e9paration uniquement \u00e0 cause des noms. La paix du foyer est pr\u00e9cieuse ; un accompagnement responsable \u00e9coute la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 de la vie des personnes, et pas seulement une combinaison de lettres.<\/p>\n<h2>Un chemin de foi et de responsabilit\u00e9<\/h2>\n<p>Le verset \u00ab Sois entier avec le SEIGNEUR ton Dieu \u00bb rappelle que la foi n\u2019est pas une qu\u00eate incessante de signes. On peut respecter les traditions, demander une b\u00e9n\u00e9diction et \u00e9tudier les sources tout en gardant discernement, libert\u00e9 de choix et responsabilit\u00e9 personnelle.<\/p>\n<p>Avant le mariage, investissez dans une connaissance sinc\u00e8re de l\u2019autre, un dialogue sur les attentes et la compr\u00e9hension des besoins de chacun. Une question halakhique sur les noms peut \u00eatre examin\u00e9e \u00e0 part, sans effacer l\u2019ensemble de la relation.<\/p>\n<p><small>Pour approfondir : testament de Rabbi Yehouda H\u00e9\u2018Hassid ; Deut\u00e9ronome 18,13. 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