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class=\"emanuel-editorial\" dir=\"ltr\">\n<p>Yahudi bir yuva kurmak sorumluluk, insani uyum, iyi karakter ve ortak istek gerektirir. Bunlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda e\u015flerin adlar\u0131 ve kitaplarda aktar\u0131lan gelenekler hakk\u0131nda sorular da do\u011fabilir. Her simgesel ipucunu korku nedenine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeden, sayg\u0131 ve sa\u011fduyuyla yakla\u015fmak gerekir.<\/p>\n<h2>Ailede ayn\u0131 adlar<\/h2>\n<p>Rabi Yehuda HeHasid\u2019in vasiyetinde e\u015flerin adlar\u0131yla ebeveynlerinin adlar\u0131 aras\u0131ndaki benzerlikler ele al\u0131n\u0131r. Bu talimatlar\u0131n kapsam\u0131 ve uygulan\u0131\u015f\u0131 farkl\u0131 bi\u00e7imlerde tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bu nedenle genel bir yaz\u0131dan ad de\u011fi\u015ftirme, evlilik g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesini iptal etme veya mevcut ili\u015fkiyi sarsma y\u00f6n\u00fcnde ki\u015fisel h\u00fck\u00fcm \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Uygulamaya y\u00f6nelik bir soru do\u011fdu\u011funda hahama tam adlar\u0131, g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta kullan\u0131lan adlar\u0131 ve aile gelene\u011fini anlatmak \u00f6nemlidir. D\u00fczenli ara\u015ft\u0131rma, s\u00f6ylentiden veya eksik ada dayanan sonu\u00e7tan iyidir.<\/p>\n<h2>Ad hesaplar\u0131 bize neyi s\u00f6yleyemez?<\/h2>\n<p>Harf hesaplar\u0131 ve gematria, ili\u015fkinin kendisini de\u011ferlendirmeye alternatif de\u011fildir. Tek ba\u015flar\u0131na e\u015flerin birbirini dinleyip dinlemedi\u011fini, sayg\u0131l\u0131 davran\u0131p davranmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ortak de\u011ferlere sahip olup birlikte ya\u015fam kurabileceklerini g\u00f6stermez. Hayati bir karar tek bir hesaba veya ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f korkutucu s\u00f6ze dayand\u0131r\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zellikle \u00e7iftlere yaln\u0131z adlar\u0131 nedeniyle ayr\u0131lmalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen kesin ifadelerden sak\u0131n\u0131n. Evde huzur de\u011ferlidir; sorumlu rehberlik yaln\u0131z harf dizilimlerini de\u011fil, insanlar\u0131n ger\u00e7ek ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 dinlemeyi gerektirir.<\/p>\n<h2>\u0130man ve sorumluluk yolu<\/h2>\n<p>\u2018Tanr\u0131n RAB\u2019le b\u00fct\u00fcn y\u00fcrekli ol\u2019 ayeti, iman\u0131n durmadan i\u015faret aramak olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Geleneklere sayg\u0131 duyabilir, bereket dileyebilir ve kaynaklar\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenirken akl\u0131, \u00f6zg\u00fcr se\u00e7imi ve ki\u015fisel sorumlulu\u011fu koruyabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Evlilik \u00f6ncesinde d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e tan\u0131\u015fmaya, beklentileri konu\u015fmaya ve iki taraf\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya emek verin. Adlarla ilgili halahik bir soru varsa, ili\u015fkinin b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc silmesine izin vermeden ayr\u0131ca ele al\u0131nabilir.<\/p>\n<p><small>\u0130nceleme i\u00e7in: Rabi Yehuda HeHasid\u2019in vasiyeti; Yasa\u2019n\u0131n Tekrar\u0131 18:13. 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