The Fast of Esther and Purim — prayer, charity and heartfelt intention

Esther’s story teaches about a reality in which deliverance is not apparent at first, and about people’s responsibility to act even amid concealment. Fasting, prayer and communal gathering form the background to the unfolding story of the Megillah. In this remembrance, the Fast of Esther becomes a time to seek mercy, while Purim is a day of joy, giving and human connection.

Esther and the doe of dawn

In midrashic tradition Esther is associated with the doe of dawn, so some customarily read Psalm 22 around this day. The custom invites reflection on the passage from distress to hope. There is no need to prescribe a binding number of repetitions when its source is unclear, or to make a personal custom a condition for prayer to be accepted.

Distinguishing a commandment, a custom and a segula

Purim’s commandments include reading the Megillah, sending food gifts, giving to the poor and holding the festive meal. Many customs have grown around them: reciting Psalms, lighting a candle or offering personal petitions. Distinguishing these matters is important, so that numerous practices do not displace the day’s central obligations.

Likewise, customs about the color of charity coins or the number of times names are mentioned should not be presented as obligations when their source has not been established. The heart of charity is helping those who need it, with respect and generosity according to one’s means.

Praying with understanding of the words

Quiet time can be set aside for Psalms or a personal prayer. It is best to read calmly and understand the subject, rather than measure prayer only by repetitions. Customs concerning biblical reading at night differ between communities and circumstances; someone who prayed at a particular time should not be frightened into thinking that the prayer itself harmed them.

The joy of the festive meal

The Purim meal offers an opportunity for gratitude, joy and generosity toward others. Torah teaching and a prayer for blessing can be included without compromising participants’ safety or dignity. Responsibility is essential, particularly avoiding driving after drinking alcohol.

What can we carry into the rest of the year?

The message does not end with a single symbolic act. We can choose a practical commitment to kindness, reconciliation or study that carries the light beyond the holiday. Prayer and giving complement one another when they connect a person with the Creator and with other people’s needs.

For study: the Book of Esther; tractate Megillah; Yoma 29, Esther and the doe of dawn; Shulchan Arukh, Orach Chayim, laws of Purim.